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How Can I Rest, There's so Much to Worry About
by Julia Gray

As I sat down to research the topic of rest, the circumstances in my life became very un-restful. I looked up verses, studied the concordance and worried. I started to worry about finances, situations at work, and not spending enough time with my husband. I thought, I’m obviously not getting it, because I’m freaking out. I am normally a laid back person with the attitude that everything will eventually work out, but the last few weeks I’ve lived in the reality that a lot of young women live in. Worry.

Worrying about life, situations, money, relationships and everything else is one of the main reasons we, as Christians, do not rest in the Lord. We are anxious about all sorts of things. One New Year’s Sunday, my pastor was talking to us about New Year’s resolutions. Not being a huge fan of those, I tried to listen as intently as I could. At the end of his sermon, he asked us to close our eyes and ask the Lord what our resolution should be for this year. I sat there and my prayer went something like this: Lord, what do you want to change in me this year? I should probably go to church more or at least get more involved. I should also have a more consistent prayer and devotional life and start getting up early to do that. After I was done guessing what would make God happy with me, in the silence of my spirit, I heard Him say, stop worrying. I will take care of you. I knew that was to be, not just a New Year’s resolution, but a change in the way I live my life. From that time on, minus the last two weeks, every time a worry would come up I would just pray that God would take care of it. He always did. He never failed me and that practice, of praying to Jesus about my worries, has changed my life.

What do rest and worry really have to do with each other? When we receive salvation we are reborn. We become new creatures, never the same. We actually join the family of God and become His daughter. We receive the gifts of salvation, which include more than just going to heaven when we die. Look up salvation in your concordance and you will see that it means to save thoroughly; to cure, preserve, rescue; escape, make perfectly whole; escape safe, bring safe; heal; protect; and deliverance from danger or suffering.(1) God is not just concerned with where you will spend eternity, but He wants you to have victory in your life right now.

With these gifts and a change in identity from our sinful character to God’s character, we are able, with His help, to become the women he intended from the beginning. Once we are born again, we have a new identity. What is it? Look at the characteristics of God and you will discover who you really are. Is God stable? Then you are stable. Does God worry? Then you need not worry. That doesn’t mean that everything in life will always be perfect; far from it. It means that we have an all-powerful God on our side, who will walk with us, as we work out what it means to be an imitator of God.(2)

When Jesus came to earth He talked about a whole new way of life. No longer did people need to strive and strain and make sure they didn’t break hundreds of laws. They didn’t need to go to the temple and cleanse themselves once a week. They did not have a barrier to the Father anymore. Jesus became the sacrifice, took down the wall that kept us from God the Father and gave us the opportunity to have a real relationship with God. Sometimes I struggle with this concept. It’s hard to have a relationship with someone you never see visually, or hear audibly. But the more I learn about Jesus and talk to Him about life, the more I love Him and want to be just like him. He said this to the people in Israel and He’s saying it to us now:

Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. (Matthew 11:28 NIV)

What does resting in Christ look like? God’s rest is entered when the believer is confidently assured within and outwardly lives peaceably in the assurance of God’s daily provisions.(3)

We live in the assurance of God’s daily provision. Wow! I love that because I can’t possibly plan for every instance that can happen in life. Recently, my husband’s grandmother passed away. She lived in Arizona so once we found out when the funeral would be held we started looking up flights. My jaw dropped when flights were coming up at $1000 each. I did not know how this would work; I just knew we needed to be with Barry’s family at that funeral. The next day at work I remembered about the Benevolence Fund and submitted a request for help. I spoke with my mom who told me to look at a website for flights I had forgotten about. The Benevolence Fund gave us $500 and I ended up finding tickets for $300 each. The day we came home, my husband told me his dad had given him some money for our flights and it was more than enough to cover everything! I have countless stories like this because, when you grab a hold of the truth that God is big enough and nothing is impossible with Him(4), then it doesn’t matter what happens in life because His provision will be evident.

One of my very best friends has had a tough couple of years. Her husband has had an extremely hard time finding consistent work and walked away from the Lord for a long time. This has put her in a stressful state both financially and emotionally. Even though bills have piled up and her husband has been angry at God, the Lord has still provided for them. She has prayed for and received everything from grocery money to rides to work when her car broke down. She had a new refrigerator that was so loud she hadn’t had a good night sleep in two years. It was so bad, it was affecting her health. After two years of praying, a friend picked her up one day to go shopping. Not having any money, my friend said she would go just to look. When she was taken to Sears and told to pick out any fridge she wanted, she was overcome with the goodness of God taking care of such a great need.

"Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more important than food, and the body more important than clothes? 26 Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? (5)

My sisters, life is hard and it’s easy to watch the news, watch our circumstances and be anxious all the time, about how this will happen or how that will happen. Do not let your emotions steal the joy you can have in knowing your savior Jesus. He is your stability. Rest in that truth.

My soul finds rest in God alone; my salvation comes from him. 2 He alone is my rock and my salvation; he is my fortress, I will never be shaken.(6)

Works Cited:
1.The New Strong’s Expanded Exhaustive Concordance of the Bible; Strong LL.D., S.T.D, James; Thomas Nelson Publishers; 2001
2. Ephesians 5:1
3. The New Strong’s Expanded Exhaustive Concordance of the Bible; Strong LL.D., S.T.D, James; Thomas Nelson Publishers; 2001 Rest 2663
4. Luke 1:37
5. Matthew 6:25-26
6. Psalm 62:1-2

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